Friday, November 20, 2015

Are You Born Gay or Is It A Choice?

Hi peeps! How's your day? I know I've been away for a while but hey! I'm back! Here I am writing a new post for you guys today while drinking my hot chocolate. Did you guys know it's winter already in Korea and today it's so freaking cold, quite windy in Seoul that's why the weather was damn cold. Since my home is located quite up high so the wind is just, well how can I say it, super crazy! Okay, enough about the weather forecast, I will never understand weather. So let's get back to the main topic. 
Not as my previous blog post about fashion review or cafe review, today we're going to have girls talk! Are you guys excited?! Because I am! Since everyone keep asking me why I always feel really upset and a bit sad these days. I can't help to let you know guys. So this post is gonna explain the reasons behind your question. I know not all of the people were asking about this, but I know some of you are really curious about it so rather than guessing around I'll just tell you what happened exactly. Let's start shall we?

Anyway, I just wish that idiot reads these post because he is the most obnoxious fan I've ever known in my whole life, for quite a period of time! This guy is a friend of my boyfriend, and he work for the same company with my boyfriend. This guy is too greedy, selfish, and corrupt. I hated him, he was blacklisted in my life.

I want you to know my level of maturity really depends on who I'm around! You know he is the biggest bitches on the planet I've ever met, he gossips too much, he treats everybody rotten, and he is two faced! In friendship I dislike the lack of loyalty and betrayal! Why do people talk sweetly in front of you but behind your back they say foul things? Why do people behave like this?

I hate that he's talking behind my back, he always forced my boyfriend to break up with me and he even pleads with my boyfriend to follow him to the US, but my boyfriend said NO, and my boyfriend tell him simply that he can't leave me alone in Korea! You might think he's given up on my boyfriend, but you know he just never gave up even when he already knew the answer! 

He keeps trying to make my boyfriend break up with me and keeps talking bad about me to my boyfriend. I just knew him for a short time so I was really shocked after all I knew it, and I tried talking to his friend so many times but he just always seems to avoid me after he talks to my boyfriend so rudely and it hurts me like hell! Hey! Be responsible for your words! Could he avoiding me because of what he did? You are an absolute coward! Well, Are you born gay or is it a choice?

A long time ago, I helped his friend a lot because he couldn't make enough money. I had been working for 3 months but I didn't get paid for all my hours I worked with his friend. After 3 months I knew I wanted to leave and my boyfriend does not allow me to work with him anymore, because he is worried about my mental health. Well, working with someone you hate can be distracting and draining energy, right?

My boyfriend and I recently found out he has cheated in the past and now we know the truth. He also stole money from the company and run away to USA. My boyfriend was depressed, whenever I saw him it would hurt and get feelings of sadness and anxiety, I'm feeling so down and I just wish he wasn't so depressed all the time. But hey, now my boyfriend will sue him to get his money back in court. I feel a bit happy because my boyfriend no longer spend a single minute on those who lie or want to manipulate.

 That son of a bitch also insulted me and all my family using words I have never used in my life and he spread rumours about me. He said my family's poor, I know we are so poor, so won't you lend me some money? My boyfriend and I have been together for almost four years, and he said everything that he see me there is no future for my boyfriend, and if we get married we will go through difficult times. So you think you know everything? Hey, you can't know everything! How can you arrange our future life? Why are you so judgmental? Are you a child of God or are you a child of the devil?

I'm not gonna say that talking about people behind or gossips are a good thing nor it's a bad thing, it's really normal. But if you overdo it, then it's become a bad habit. Like say something that you're not sure if it's true, create rumors and stuffs. Please before you say something, think how you'd feel if someone said it to you! I feel bad when he say unkind things about me, because he don't even know me so why does he judge my life!

It's okay if you don't like me, not everyone has good taste, but at least in your mind if you have a problem with me, then bring it to my attention and if you're brave enough to talk behind my back, then have the courage to say it to my face! I don't know why does he enjoy insulting and teasing others? Why can't you just mind your own business?

I simply just wanna have a friend, I don't need an enemy. I don't care how old you are, if you don't respect me I'm not respecting you too! I'm human with feelings too and you can't expect me to be nice all the time! You will never know the limit patience of me so don't even try to explore that far. You'll get lost and you won't survive! Don't pretend to know me and stop of saying bullshit things. I don't have time to deal with the matter immediately, but if I start to get annoyed and it is more dangerous for you! I've said whatever that I needed to say and explain right here! Hope you get my point about what I'm trying to say!

That's it for today post! Sorry that's so long, I didn't relise how much it still upset me. =( I just can't get over the feeling sometimes of just wanting to scream at him to see if he has any regret or the feeling of just wanting him to feel the same absolute betrayal the feeling of falling to the floor and not even being able to get up! 

I really hope he got the biggest dose of karma ever, I don't think these types of people deserve any happiness in his lives whatsoever. I have no patience for anyone who does not deserve my patience, not because I've become arrogant, but simply because I reached a point in my life where I do not want to waste more time with what displeases me or hurts me deep inside. 

Please share your suggestion here by leaving a comment below. I do want you to know that I appreciate every thought, every opinion, every discussion we have. It's almost 6.30 a.m in the morning and I need to get some sleep since I'm still sick. See you guys real soon in my next post!
Christin Tomntins
Tom and Tins, Updated at: 6:11 AM

30 comments:

  1. Lovely post dear! Thanks for sharing) Have a great day))
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  2. Oh God, dear, I am so sorry! That dick hurted you inspite of that fact you helped him a lot! What a jerk! I guess I'd kill him if he say smth bad about my family, you are so patient, dear, you are truly an angel! Hope you'll be okay!
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  3. nice post~!

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  4. lovely post...i think it is just a choice..

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  6. Please, play no mind to him. Maybe you guys need to distance yourself from him. Keep your head up, dear.

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  7. you're so pretty ^^

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  8. Agree! Don't waste any more of your time on that person. He doesn't deserve it! As long as you know you aren't any of those things he said then walk with your head held high. He can't bring you down. Just think of happy thoughts. He will get the karma he deserves in due time. :)

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  9. I hate people who are like that. Don't worry karma will let him pay.
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  11. Oh dear,very sorry to heard that.Let the karma beat those bad boy.You have your right to protect your loves one,your family and your relationship that you build up for long time.Good luck and my best wishes for you and your loves one.
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  12. Oh gosh!
    Even not being gay, that attitude is trash!
    And being gay, it's much more super trash!

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